Mothers never get the attention they deserve, and the world of Fifty Shades of Grey is no exception. We’ve read a lot about Dakota Johnson and Jamie Dornan, but what about the woman playing mama Grey, Marcia Gay Harden? The Oscar winning actress cast as Dr. Grace Trevelyan tells Entertainment Weekly she “shame read” the book in order to prepare for the role. Marcia, honey, the only shame is that you haven’t read it before now. But on a more positive note, she gives the thumbs up to the casting of her on-screen devilishly dominant son: “He’s beautiful. He’s chiseled beauty and the camera eats it up. He’s an Irish boy.” How’s that for motherly love?